Today is a special day.
Not only is today Christmas Eve, but it is the birthday of my precious little boy.
Two years ago today, we received a phone call that would change our lives (and family) forever. After Emily, we tried to get pregnant for a couple of years, and finally went through a couple of (failed) rounds of IVF. We found out from the doctor that I didn't have very many eggs left and though my uterus was healthy, my ovaries were prematurely old.
It was devastating to say the least, but a few weeks later I knew I was supposed to adopt. That strong feeling helped me get through that difficult time. We signed up with an agency, filled out all of the paperwork, had interviews and visits, and finally got approved for placement the first week of November, 2009.
Back to Christmas Eve, 2009.
That morning, our little family of three went to Ruby's for breakfast. We were joking around about how perfect it would be if we got a baby before the end of the year. Ha Ha- not gonna happen!
At close to 3pm, I was out in the garage working on last minute handmade Christmas gifts. The phone rang. It was our case worker. I thought she was calling about something else, and told her sorry for having to work on Christmas Eve. She said no, this is her favorite type of call to make! She told us a baby boy was born in Detroit a couple hours before, and the birth mother chose us to be his parents.
Those Christmas presents never got finished...
(I'm getting emotional as I write this...)
Crazy. We had to book flights for the day after Christmas for all three of us, and make arrangements to stay in Michigan an undetermined amount of time. We flew out that morning, and at 8pm EST we picked up our son from the downtown Detroit hospital.
It was surreal. Birthmom had already gone home, and little Aaron was hanging out with the nurses waiting for our arrival. When we held our son in our arms for the first time, there was no doubt he was meant to be in our family, no matter how he got here.
The past two years have been an amazing adventure as he has grown from sweet baby to curious, busy toddler. I am filled with gratitude today for my beautiful boy.







Thank you for sharing your beautiful story with us! How blessed you are to have your sweet son <3
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday, little fellow!!
ReplyDeleteHappy Christmas from Norway :-)
Merry Christmas to you and your family and of course Happy Birthday to your son.
ReplyDeleteYour story is amazing...
Greetings from Germany
Catrin
Happy Birthday to your little blessing. I love reading your story...amazing :)
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! One party-well, two - great!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your story. More and more people wishing to adopt must hear it.
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Wow! What a beautiful story of family and God's wonderful unexpected plans... Merry Christmas and happy birthday to that little guy with the bright smile!
ReplyDeleteWhat a crazy and sweet, sweet story! It brought a tear to my eye, and it has really set the mood for me for a crazy Christmas Eve. Love this, will keep this in my heart as I do all those last minute things and house cleaning, etc. THIS is what it's about!
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweet story! Happy birthday to your darling little boy and Merry Christmas to you and your family!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your sweet story, it brought a few tears to my eyes. Happy Birthday to your cute little guy and Merry Christmas to your family.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful...
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness! He is the cutest! I have tears in my eyes reading your story. What a sweet little angel he is.
ReplyDeleteOh, I love that story. I have one just like it (minus the traveling!) that happened on Thanksgiving 4 years ago. Beautiful!
ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas to you and your family!
Very sweet story, still teared up!
ReplyDeleteWhat a gorgeous little boy, and such a special story! I'm so happy he got to join your family! Merry Christmas (and happy birthday to the little guy)!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful little boy and what a great story! I got a little teary. I have many friends with similar, awesome stories ... I love the way God builds families.
ReplyDeletejen, i got teary-eyed reading this. i still remember those wooden blocks you were painting in the garage for family christmas gifts. It was such exciting and happy news when you got that phone call. What a special Christmas miracle. Happy BIrthday Aaron. Hope y'all had a very Merry Christmas.
ReplyDeleteI am so happy for you. It's great when people adopt, especially when they adopt from a different race. He has such a wonderful smile. It truly was meant to be. Thanks for sharing!
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That brought a tear to my eye- what a beautiful story and a beautiful little boy. I am glad your grief was transformed to become his mom. And thank goodness for women who give the gift of a baby to a loving family.
ReplyDeleteI love this story. Happy belated birthday to your son.
ReplyDeletewhat a gorgeous story, even bought tears to my eyes. love that.
ReplyDeleteI hope he had a great birthday, he looks like one very happy little boy :)
ReplyDeleteLove this story. Thanks for sharing. My husband and I are currently considering adoption so I especially appreciated reading this right now.
ReplyDeleteJen, this is such a sweet story! So glad you linked to it in your post today...loved reading this.
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